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Ever had the sense there could be more to sex? That there could be something deeper, hotter, that it could maybe even change your life?

I do. Back when I was a teenager I used to dream of being the best lover possible. Being fairly conservative at the time, I had no idea what that meant, just that I wanted it.

Years and relationships passed. I thought sex was great, sacred even, but acted like it was shameful – no conversations (before, during or after), lights off, hoping for the best. And the best often became repetitive and, after a while, meaningless.

I vowed to change, and took the plunge. I joined communities, read books, took workshops, attended events and rituals, found new friends and new lovers. I came to understand there was so much more to sexuality than I had ever dreamed possible, that it could open doors to new worlds of healing, pleasure and transformation. I realized I’d spent much of my life in my head, when I had a whole body to inhabit – and a heart and soul too.

Now, how I do sex is how I do life: integrated, whole, conscious and alive. And I can help you do the same.

I wanted to work on longstanding fear of intimacy, low confidence, and ED problems. I’d tried counseling, psychotherapy, and various drugs without noticeable improvement. Jay helped me find and live MY life.  Now I am persistently present in my body, know who I am, and am living a sensual authentic amazing life.  I am a better person, lover, father, and friend.  I’ve stopped including my past problems as part of my story because most people don’t believe me and it’s not who I am today. – John, Financial Advisor

The people I work with value their sexuality as an important part of who they are or who they want to be. Their sexual journey is something they’re willing to devote time and energy to. They know there are no quick fixes, though they’re sometimes quicker than we might dare to hope. They can taste what they want, even if they’re not sure yet exactly what it looks like or how to get there.

Are you ready to develop a direct, authentic relationship with your sexuality that may just change your life? If so, I might be the right person to help you. Click here to find out what a session with me might look like.