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There are a ton of books out there: on sexuality, healing, spirituality, or all of the above. Here are a few of my favourites: pick them up at Wild at Heart or an independent bookstore near you!

Healing Sex by Staci Haines
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin

Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas
The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch
Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-Commitment by Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino

Evolutionary Witchcraft by T. Thorn Coyle

What Happy People Know by Dan Baker
The Oxytocin Factor by Kerstin Uvnas Moberg
Soul Without Shame by Byron Brown
The Pleasure Prescription by Paul Pearsall


Friends and Colleagues

…then again, there’s only so much you can learn from books. Here are a few folks who are near and dear to my heart. Their brilliance, courage and integrity continue to impress the pants off me… sometimes literally!

Robyn Lynn: Integrative Sex & Intimacy Coach based in the Bay Area, CA and Seattle, WA

Dr. Liam “captain” Snowdon: Sexologist and Sexological Bodyworker based in Victoria, BC and Portland, OR

Reid Mihalko: Sex and Relationship Expert based in the Bay Area, CA
(downloadables, online and teleconference courses as well as private coaching)

Graydancer: BDSM Presenter and Sex-positive Educator based in Seattle, WA

Dawn Isidora: Sacred Sex Magic Workshop Facilitator and Mentor based in Portland, OR

Ravyn Stanfield: Sacred Sex Magic Workshop Facilitator based in Portland, OR

Local Resources

Wild at Heart (excellent local independently-owned adult toy shop in Ballard)
Babeland (high-quality well-informed adult toy shop on Capitol Hill)
CSPC (Center for Sex-positive Culture)
SEAF (Seattle Erotic Art Festival)

Online Information and Networking

Fetlife (Sex-Positive and Kinky Social Networking)
Janesguide (adult website reviews)
Passionate U (subscription site with video clips from loads of fantastic sex educators – including me!)
Sacred Eros (directory of sex coaches, tantra teachers etc across the US; includes articles & classes)